Little Madame’s Mermaid Party

Though she was a Spring baby when she was born in Europe, our little girl’s birthday falls into the very end of Summer here in South Africa, but usually we are able to host the party outside in the patio and most children tend to end up in the swimming pool anyway… Last year, we hosted a Mermaid birthday for her, and it was one of the most fun parties I organised for my children, it was hard work but I felt I could really be quite creative with the decorations and entertainment ideas.

I started off by stocking on fabrics from one of my favourite stores in Johannesburg, Chamdor: I wanted to create a girlie underwater scene, with shimmery tulle and coral sequin details, and then found a gorgeous netting that looked fun to add interest to the tables. Then I moved on to Party Spot to find some basics. I bought some round paper lantern that got turned into floating jelly fish with the help of some ribbons, shower roses and my faithful glue gun. That’s also where I found the pretty plain vanilla lilac paper cups that also got glammed up with some netting left over from the shower roses and some glitter glue. I dug out the little treasure chest we had for Little Monsieur’s Pirate birthday a few years ago, and filled it with seashells, pearl strings, and jewels.

The sweets table was lovely and easy to put together, with a beautiful cake from Carmella’s On The Square, little shark jelly fish, rock candy, all colour coordinated… Always mindful of having healthy options, I added little seaweed looking strings of green grapes, small buckets of raspberries that reminded me of little sea anemonies. Carmella also made some sea-shell macaroons which were just darling. We had small balloons into mesh made to look like buoys, and a super cute seahorse guarding the sweets (he clearly wasn’t scary enough as the little ones had devoured a big chunk of the sweets before long).

The children button stools and tretle tables were hired from Kiddies Theme Parties, and the little seashell plates and napkins from Meri Meri. We had chinese takeaway boxes decorated with mesh, more glitter and seashells as favour boxes.

For activities we had a big sandpit with little buckets for the children to make castles (our neighbours had had a Builders party for their youngest just a few weeks prior and we were able to recycle the sand and buckets), a few trays with pearls for mermaid necklace making, and some with seashells for painting with glitter glue. We also had face painting with the wonderful Monique from Never Grow Up, she does beautiful face paints and kept the little ones entertained before the candle blowing.

I loved putting this super girlie theme together, and looking back to it I can’t wait for the lockdown restrictions to ease so we can get on with the plan I had for this year’s party and have all of Little Madame’s friends join us for a fun afternoon.

With love, S.

Little Monsieur’s mad science party

As a full-time working mama, I often feel quite guilty for not spending enough time with my little ones (who doesn’t…) and organising their parties from scratch is one of the many ways I have found to tone that guilt feeling down somewhat. By “from scratch”, I mean I don’t outsource anything at all, with the exception of the cake: cake baking and most importantly decorating is really not one of my strengths, I simply refuse to embarrass myself. But besides the cake, I plan and execute everything, with the dutiful help of Hubby Dearest who I think has come to dread party planning time… but I love it.

Three reasons why I love to do everything myself: I enjoy creating and decorating, I don’t like anything event planners have to offer (it all looks a little cheap and unoriginal yet it costs a fortune) and of course, it means I’m spending weeks focusing on what will make the littles smile on the big day.

One of my favourite kids parties to organise was Little Monsieur’s Mad Science birthday, which we had in our Johannesburg home. I try to keep most of our parties at home, it allows to set up as early as I want to (this year we started setting up on Tuesday for a party on Saturday) and to go as big as I want…

As usual, I first spent a little time online, mainly on Instagram and Pinterest, gathering inspiration, then I got to planning. Some props were easy to find, we were able to reuse the skull that we had brought from London and had already featured in a few parties (Pirates, Halloween…that skull has been used so often I should name it). We also re-used some party items that come handy each time and were well worth the investment: the drink dispensers, the cake stands etc; we use them over and over again no matter what the occasion.

Some other items were positively impossible to find. When we had this party I hadn’t discovered the Johannesburg-based party accessories hire places I know of now, so we had to buy the lab beakers and bottles from a real science shop, and I’m not quite sure when I’ll next have use for them, but we’ll see… That is also where we found some perfectly sized plastic petri dishes to have the pretend virus growth cultures (in reality blue and green jelly with silver sprinkles that we let dissolve on top).

The background blackboard-like panel with all the formulae was a download I ordered on Etsy, where I also found the printables such as the invites and the table labels: Johannesburg isn’t very big on original kids party shops but if you find anything online that you want to print, the print shops are really good and you can get some really fun things done.

I ordered the balloon garland and the tableware at Party Spot: the guys at their balloon counter are fantastic, if you explain to them what you need they will do pretty much anything with balloons, including a garland that makes it look like toxic bubbles seeping out of a lab bottle and on to the floor… I then customised the bamboo cutlery by adding some silver moshi tape and the glasses by adding a sticker where I drew graduations to make them look like lab beakers. Other fun finds: plastic syringes where we served green coloured custard cream, and test tubes filled with colour-matching M&M’s.

The entertainment was a fun yet educational session with Nutty Scientists: we had a real scientist (related to Einstein apparently…) come guide the children through a session filled with fun experiments such as making elephant tooth paste, creating mini explosions etc. The kids wore lab blouses and goggles we bought from our local building materials store. Everyone got to participate and it was a sparkling success.

Setting up was relatively easy for this one as all we had to do was fix the background to the sweets table and set up two extra tables: one for the experiences and one for the tea. I tried to keep in the spirit of a lab with high stools, and decorated some further with little lab mice (from a Halloween party a few years back), dry snow some slinkies. The tables and stools come from Hire Society, where I also like to hire for our grown-up parties…

And of course, we can’t have a birthday party without a cake. These days I order all my cakes from Carmella’s: I have tried a couple of other places before and found that this is the place to come for beautiful, delicious and reasonably priced celebration cakes. There you have it, our mad science party in a few pictures and words… I hope you like it!

With love, S.